Discussing others, we always forget ourselves. Is this good to be so much concentrated on others that to lost focus on the goal of your life? Life is so precious that it can not be wasted on others, never share your problems with others, some will not care for them and some will feel glad that you have them. It’s better to concentrate on yourself than others. No one is going to help you in your problems, you only will be your savior. So better to be focussed and concentrated on your energies.